With age, we mature and grow into wonderful women, but even though we are older, wiser and more empowered than ever, it can still be easy to forget our true value.
When life takes a difficult turn, our confidence can be knocked, and our sense of self-worth may take a nosedive.
This is why I recently asked some of my wonderful clients to think about what they would say to their 18-year-old selves, to boost their confidence, if they had the chance.
The new ‘Note to Self’ Series
I’ve collated these words of wisdom into a ‘Note to Self’ e-book and, in this new blog series, I’ll be sharing the stories in the hope that they inspire you.
Since their teens, these women have lived, loved and learnt so much. I felt that we could all benefit from their experiences and advice.
In this edition, you’ll meet Deborah.
Deborah’s ‘Note to Self’…
“To my 18-year-old self,
It’s hard being an adult. You have to learn to know yourself, how the world works and where you fit in.
You might think you know it all already, but you don’t. Please allow me to share some advice…
Find out what makes you tick – don’t conform to expectations
It’s OK not to like beer and ale
Get that motorbike license – it will set you free!
Let’s face it; you are a short arse. Forget the high heels – Invest in New Rock Boots for height and comfort (especially at gigs)
Invest in your family – always keep in touch with your parents and sister – they may not always understand what you are saying or doing – they just want to see you and know you are safe
Invest in your friends – you will know who your true friends are -they will be the ones that are there in the good times and are there for the bad times
Learn to love your freckles and squeezy cheeks and stay out of the sun – you will be grateful for your youthful looks in 30 years’ time!
Follow your instinct – take note of those alarm bells – especially when it comes to men…that feeling will protect you from pain.
Always be respectful and kind; even when some idiots may not be to you
Smile and the world with smile with you
Thank you, Deborah for your insights into finding freedom and joy!
Such brilliant tips. I love how you have embraced who you are and realised what truly matters.
Thanks so much for sharing this with me.
Access the free Johanna Elizabeth ‘Note to Self’ book
Note to Self is a beautifully designed ebook with many more stories like this, and it’s completely free. I created it especially for you, so don’t miss out! Access it here.
You can also view others in the series here on the blog. Don’t miss these!
- Lucy found inner peace and now lives a life she loves
- Holly has finally discovered her worth and feels amazing
- Charlotte shares her confidence-boosting tips with her 18-year-old self
Love Johanna
~x~
